pregnant and can t stand the smell of my husband

The other night my husband came home & I could smell rotten shoes around him... Then just today I was laying in bed with hubby & Almost puked koz when I was right next to him I could smell like a strong fishy smell coming from him!!! The smell of smoke can just stick everywhere and can be pretty nasty, even for moms who smoked themselves prior to pregnancy! Dear Husband Annoys Me, Hmmm, for once I am stumped because I never get annoyed with my husband at all. But there are also smells that you just can’t stomach for whatever reason including spaghetti sauce, fried foods, syru… Or am I the only b***h? To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. But the most common offender, by far, are dads who smoke. You can smell the individual peanut proteins on your child’s breath after they eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Provided that she can still stand the smell, of course. Many times they’re even super helpful with helping out with the pregnancy and looking after the other kids. My husband is not allowed to fry eggs again inside the house, until I deliver. In bed I have to be turned the other way or else I start gagging! share. Especially if it somehow involved a misused condom or a heartfelt promise that he’d pull out at the last moment. Animals . Or not. There’s no specific reason as to why she hates him. My husband's scent was one of them. Some in-laws, or at least an aunt or two on either side of the family, can be unbearable. He can get out and have a smoke or a couple of bottles of beer, while she has to think constantly about how that’s going to affect the baby. Some people have a heightened sense of smell that can trigger nausea. Many of these changes are necessary to the pregnancy, such as the belly and the breasts increasing in size. He?s started taking two showers a day and brushing his teeth just before I get home from work. Pregnancy is a period of change. So why, exactly, are some moms and dads-to-be prone to hating each other during a time when, supposedly, they’re best off giving each other love and support? It was the grossest thing EVER. Even after he brushed his teach I'm naseaus smelling it. Plus complaining about my hips, back, huge belly and enlarged boobs is not sexy to him apparently. To be fair, many husbands are supportive, making sure that the mom-to-be knows that, no, she does not actually look like a whale with stretch marks. Dear Husband Annoys Me, Hmmm, for once I am stumped because I never get annoyed with my husband at all. “It enhances it. I can’t stand the smell of his face lotion and hid it from him until after the baby is born. "My husband says I'm overly sensitive as his sister and my brother have both smell tested him after two beers and they say they can't smell anything," she continued. Or is anyone else experiencing this while pregnant? It was my pre teen who seemed to be emanating hormones from every pore that made me want to vomit, the poor kid! Littlebb2020 Sun 22-Mar-20 08:26:51. Log in Sign up. Only lasted a couple of weeks though, I think was gone by week 11. I feel so bad feeling the way I do. Or even just turning up the air conditioning can do wonders. Smells are psychic stimuli. I love him very much but his smell is killing me. How she experiences hormones during her menstrual periods may be a good indicator of how sensitive her emotions will be during pregnancy. She just can’t stand him. Dad might, for instance, complain about how bland the food is. The smell of him and his breath repulse me. Message Boards FAQ. Now that I'm in my 6th month my tummy has settled down. Sources: MayoClinic.org, HealthLine.com, PsychCentral.com, Parenting.com. In the meantime, dad only has to wait nine months for the baby to pop out. Subject: 25 weeks pregnant and can't stand my husband -- hormones or something more?? “I was like ‘I can’t stand you and I don’t know why. After all, he can go ahead and have her favorite cheese and garlic pizza while she’s wallowing in nausea. The same thing happened to me! Which is wonderful because we are now stuck in the house together 24/7 haha. After all, he’s half the reason why this is happening in the first place! The good news is that most women recognize that this hormonal hatred for daddy is pretty irrational. The expecting couple might opt to wait these feelings out or, alternatively, resolve any other issues causing the hate. He tries even harder when I am like this, and that just makes me madder. I was staying with my MIL when I was first pregnant, and her whole house, bedsheets, towels everything smelt horrendous to me. I am 13, almost 14 weeks pregnant. Best of luck to you! Hang in there and try your best to not hurt his feelings but explain that it's unbearable for you. Or blowing up like an inflatable balloon mascot. I hated my husbands guts while I was pregnant with my first. LOL. Our body soap smells different on my husband, and everytime he showers, he knows to stay away from me for a while, because the smell just makes me vomit. But even then, it may not be enough to make mom resent him less. This can range from frankly unfunny remarks about his wife’s body or, in the worst of cases, flirting with other women right in front of his wife. It starts off with subtle little changes in the body and, perhaps, morning sickness. You will be doubly sick. I'm 9 weeks pregnant and for the past few weeks the smell of my dog is making me feel sick! Dad can, for instance, pitch in by bringing home the groceries after work or doing the dishes when mom’s feeling a worn out. Some dads are clueless. I have super-power senses. I used to sniff pieces of orange peel to help. It’s correctable, and it may even be endearing once you get used to it. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. : A few weeks ago I noticed that I've suddenly developed a heightened sense of smell. For example – if morning coffee was your pick-me-up ritual and now that you are pregnant you can’t stand the smell of your favorite beverage – you can blame the hCG. When you’re pregnant, you might have a love/hate relationship with food.1 One day you crave something, the next day you’re gagging at the thought of it. The G.O.A.T. Work can be difficult and unfair. In the worst of cases, a dad might hurt or even beat his wife. It wasn’t a matter of hygiene — I literally washed a former girlfriend but the smell remained. Pregnancy. For the most part, I got really, really lucky and had a pretty routine pregnancy with my son seven years ago. Mom’s change of feelings for dad may be partially affected by the pregnancy. Im 17 weeks and i started smelling my husband when i was 8 weeks pregnant, he tried to change his bath soap and shampoo but no i cant stand the smell cz its in his skin and dnt have any interest in having sex . Then i walk into the living room and that makes me heave. While misting yourself with lavender or mint sounds like a good idea, just remember, pregnant ladies get sick off the smell of toothpaste. My doctor put me off work due to being a high risk pregnancy. I can still feel each crunch clawing its way through my ear as if it were yesterday — every bite felt like an assault to my nerve endings. But you can’t get enough of the smell of the perfume in boots. But this has gotten to the extreme. My husbands breath was STAGNANT in my first trimester! That is, the mom-to-be can now smell the slightest hint of body odor from a mile away. The smells makes me sick and I feel like I’m nagging at him and making him feel crap but I can’t help it! You guys, I feel like a monster sometimes. 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It never use to be this w… Gawd. 'One morning after being violently woken by the sound of my husband’s thunderous, yet odorless flatulence I grumbled what he had done to me. The two of them had sex. Other dads, however, are just downright irresponsible, adapting a “that’s your problem, not mine” outlook towards pregnancy. Perhaps you need to take a test. I was also certain that the brand of soap he used just wasn't doing anything so I "accidentally" bought him a different stronger scented brand but to no avail. Anyone else doing this? Or even if he’s completely over the moon about it, he may not know how to express it in a way that mom-to-be can feel it. Only during this time, mom may not exactly have a lot of patience to do so. I don't like the smell of popcorn or pop. I can't describe the smell I just hate it. Not a bit strange!! zena1979 over 1 year ago Hate my husband's smell. That’s me heaving over my computer screen at the mere mention of peanut butter breath, and I’m not even pregnant right now. 3. All these daily daddy bloopers can even be enough for mom to downright hate her husband. i dont want to see my husband or smell him: When I see my hubby I feel like throwing up..his breath n feet stink like hell by I have never had that problem before - BabyCenter Australia . Many are already familiar with the pregnancy superpower of the bionic nose. Moving on. Expert Blogs and Interviews . As if carrying their son’s child makes her something of their property as well. but yeah, a little musty/old man/drinking the day before smell. Cook and eat only those foods you can stand to smell. No matter where I am in the house, there's this smell. Before pregnancy I actually liked my husbands smell even in the morning he didn’t seem to smell bad at all. Even if mom stays at home, after all, it might be way too much to expect her to do all of the chores when she’s experiencing some of the more unpleasant symptoms of pregnancy. Melanie “I’ve recently gone off my own perfume. My husbands friend leaves soon after. THUNK! I love him very much but his smell is killing me. More in Family & Pregnancy Parenting. In some cases, the best solution is for dad to just acknowledge the changes in his wife and to adjust. not 2 minutes after he is gone, my husband is all over me, he licks me and he jacks off, he questions me and I give him somewhat truthful answers while he plays with himself. I never noticed it before, but the last few months when I have picked him up from work he SMELLS when he gets in the car! What can happen late in the pregnancy is opposite to this ‘’bionic sense’’ – a woman’s sense of smell may decrease. All my husband (I cringe when I have to refer him as such) manages to do is keep the couch warm and the electronics turned on. Some might not realize that they do actually have to go do the groceries when mom’s experiencing severe bouts of morning sickness. i'm definitely not pregnant! The reason behind this is straightforward – tissue in your nose becomes more swollen, leaving less space for airflow and that in turn reduces your ability to register different smells. But it’s just careless to think that he can go through life without giving the least bit of support to the wife and child. She's been married to her husband for 4 years and she can't stand him, and cringes at the thought of referring to him as her husband. When I was pregnant with Jack, I couldn’t stand to be near the kitchen. Thankfully DH was v gracious in the face of me saying “Sorry darling, but your natural scent is making me feel sick.”It did get better!!! Resentment over laundry left undone and floors unswept can grate into a relationship, after all, especially if one or both partners are stressed out. I was the same, especially with DC 1. Yet another surefire way for the dad-to-be to get mom’s hate. Mary Hawkins. (That was the sound of my husband dropping his computer … It will get better though and if he gets upset reassure him that you're not the only pregnant lady who goes through this, some people can't stand the smell of their own children. He is going to retire in about two months. The usual culprit for the daddy hate? In terms of my sickness I was prescribed Promethazine hydrochloride from the doctor and when I got into a good routine of taking them it really helped with the sickness. Or, failing that, Chinese takeout with garlic rice wasn’t exactly a great idea either. I feel horrible. She's not remotely dirty, it wasn't unclean I just couldnt stand it! Even my bedroom has a horrible nasty musty smell. 13 Weeks Pregnant and I Can't Stand the Smell of Kissing My Husband. It was like he hadn't brushed his teeth. buchsammy/Pixabay. I think it's his breath. One might expect that hubby will shower her with all the warmth in the world, but sometimes that’s not the case. 'I woke my husband by the smell of my farts, ' she said. It starts off with subtle little changes in the body and, perhaps, morning sickness. we have sex for maybe 5 minutes and he finishes inside of me. It never use to be this way, I use to love the smell of him and now I gag and I tell him about it and feel horrible. I was tempted to walk around with a clothes pin on my … Or, in most cases, the things that she found hard to tolerate about him in the first place have been amplified. I turns me on like crazy the contrast between the two men. My husband eats it every day and I just want to be sick watching it ..." 12 Your OWN wee! The mom-to-be might be delighted to know she won’t have to worry about her period for a while, although those who are a bit more experienced know that there’s a tradeoff for this pregnancy perk. I resorted to sleeping in the spare room because I couldn't get to sleep because of the smell. I can't stand the smell of my husband. Pregnancy Create a Post. In fact I always thought he smelled wonderful. Everything he does gets on my nerves. During my first trimester my stomach couldn't stand many smells. He didn't do anything wrong at all, but I just could not handle him at all. The poor pup wants to cuddle on the couch and I gag just getting a whiff of his puppy smell. He is our #1 kiddo (for now) and we love him dearly but lately I cannot STAND the way he smells. Walking by the break room at work was just about enough to make me vomit. My husband is a very negative person in every aspect of his life. This is not in my head, I have actually thrown up with the smell of bacon that my husband was cooking for himself and our son, I had to leave the room and go to my bedroom and close the door. With all the changes going on with her body, a pregnant mom can get insecure. In fact I always thought he smelled wonderful. OMG. Basically, it’s important to acknowledge that both mom and dad have different perspectives so it’s probably best to take that into account when communicating. i'm 6 weeks pregnant and can't stand the smell of the detergent my bf's mum uses to wash their clothes so every time my bf comes near me and his clothes smell of it i want to heave! Huuuaaaahhhhhhhhh Huuuuaaaahahhh. Website for moms seeking advice, community, and entertainment. This can, of course, depend on whether mom or dad are both working or if either of them is the primary breadwinner. And that includes some of the more unsavory sides of each other’s personality. Now it?s hard for me to sit anywhere close to him. 10. It smells like chicken all the time. Also, some men still can’t stand up to their own mothers. Otherwise, relationship counseling might be a good idea to repair the damage. Nausea is complex, and anyone can develop triggers for it. I have super-power senses. But just like even dad gets irritable on the hottest of summer days, this increased heat can make mom just prone to emotional combustion. I am 7 weeks pregnant, and the past few days I have been constantly angry or annoyed. : I hope it's hormones but I feel some days I could leave this man and never turn back!! Yup, the very same father of the child with whom she had consented to do the loving act that has brought this little blessing into existence. But for some reason, some pregnant women find their husband’s natural smell repulsive. I cannot stand the smell, the dirt, the pee and the aggravation. I had never noticed anything before I became pregnant. His breath smells like he’s eaten garlic bread everyday even though he hasn’t, he likes a drink on a Friday and it stinks the whole room out especially in the morning. This is a common sentiment for unplanned pregnancies. For instance, scientists have hypothesized that for some women, this heightened sense of smell can trigger morning sickness . After all, raising a child requires a lot of teamwork so it’s best to iron that part of the relationship out right now. I tried to tell him nicely but he seemed a little hurt. Can't stand my husband! Advertisement. Prior to pregnancy, dad-to-be’s tendency for forgetting things may be slightly endearing. I feel really bad about it. But sometimes, these feelings can also be due to dad’s own reaction to the pregnancy. I smell everything!” she said during her first pregnancy. Sure, I was huge, had more than my fair share of heartburn and hemorrhoids, and was uncomfortable as hell towards the end -- but I was never sick … I can’t stand the smell of his face lotion and hid it from him until after the baby is born. But like with any challenge in the relationship, it will involve times when one or both partners might hate the other. In this case, a whole lot of help from the baby’s grandparents might do the trick to both help mom out and educate dad on dealing with pregnancy. When she was born it was like I came out of this evil fog. , This happened to me. But some women just don’t have it that good. Or he might complain that the car broke down and he’s had to walk from a few blocks away in the grueling heat. This can seem odd for some, considering that they’ve always found their husband to be pleasant-smelling, a major factor that has probably in one way or another resulted in him becoming the father of the baby. A nice, long tepid bath, perhaps, can help. I feel horrible. “I just remember it was windy and being angry, hating my now husband,” she recalled to reporters in Australia, according to AFP. In terms of my partner I totally know how you feel (especially the drink on a Friday night/smell on Saturday morning). 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